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Someone who is tranquil, kind and physically gifted by nature. A softdom is a person who is loving and gentle with eyes only for their partner but a powerful force to be reckoned with when they need to be. Both in a fight and in the bedroom. Don't be fooled by the soft dom's kind hearted demeanor
He's a soft dom. He likes to take complete control in the sheets; to maximize the satisfaction of both his and her pleasures. Afterwards he kisses her forehead, tucks her in and reminds her why she's worth it.

"I love my softdom boyfriend!"
Softdom by Succityfuccity798 July 23, 2020
A soft dom is an individual that submits to their sexual partner in the bedroom. It is related to BDSM.
Yeah my boyfriend is a SoftDom, he always does my commands whenever I need him to.
SoftDom by Joseph Mandenhall May 21, 2022

Softdom Side 

Softdom Side

A Softdom Side Is a dominant sexual partner that chooses to express their dominance through praise and care rather than degradation. A softdom side, for instance, may be physically dominant and aggressive while being verbally loving, appreciative, and gentle, but at the same time they do not enjoy penetrative sex (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of sexual activity (making out, cuddling, mutual masturbation, etc).
"I didn’t realize he was a softdom side until he started choking me while we were cuddling and he said good sub and told me how cute I looked".
Softdom Side by Fashionfan26 August 28, 2023

soft dom 

a soft dom is a person who is rough with you during sex, but soft afterward in aftercare and even after that.
“I have a soft dom, he’s rough but after so so nice and feels bad for going rough for awhile.”
soft dom by taeisabottom May 26, 2018

Soft dom 

Kyoya Miyazaki from the tiktok account @Foolh4rdys.
Person: hey, do you know who Kyoya Miyazaki from tiktok is?

Person 2: oh he’s such a soft dom
Soft dom by Lemonademelons May 2, 2022

softdoor 

Easy outdoor activity that a majority of people are capable of doing.
That hike was only a mile long. That was softdoor dude
softdoor by Chief of keef August 16, 2023
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