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Kinkshaming 

When someone or something Judges someone else’s kink/fetish.
Person 1: I have a daddy kink
Person 2: That’s disgusting

Person 1: Are you kinkshaming me?
Person 2: Kinkshaming is my kink.
Kinkshaming by BiG DiCk EnErGy July 28, 2018

kinkshaming 

When someone shames a fetish/kink
When I told Jessica about my chin fetish, she started kinkshaming me

kink shame 

To kink shame is to disrespect or devalue a person for his or her particular kink or fetish.
To kink shame someone is to put them down for having a kink you disapprove of or can't relate to, for ex.:

"Eww! You like fat chicks?" to a guy who is into BBW (big beautiful women).

or "I can't believe you let a man boss you around!" to a submissive woman in a D/s relationship

or "Don't you have any self respect?" to a masochist into BDSM.
kink shame by lingolinda September 29, 2014

kinkshaming 

Kink shaming is used to when a person is degrading or speaking negatively of someone's kink interest.
Person 1: I'm into being called daddy

Person 2: That's it, I'm kinkshaming

example 2

Person 1: Man, vore is so gross
person 2: Don't kinkshame
kinkshaming by EmieChii April 23, 2016

kinkshaming 

Disrespecting or disregarding one's personal needs, feelings, or likewise based on what they get off to.
Stephanie was Kinkshaming Mckenzie the other day. Whats wrong with Ipecac videos anyway?
kinkshaming by GasperLeeFuzz January 15, 2016

kinkshaming 

a word invented by people who feel the need to defend and normalize their disgusting/repulsive fetishes that are otherwise indefensible

example: scat, rape, vore, cbt, snuff
person 1: I like seeing someone shit in another persons mouth while they rape them
person 2: thats fucking disgusting, the fuck is wrong with you?
person 1: well... scat is not..... its not that..... uh.... STOP KINKSHAMING!!!!!!
kinkshaming by person from 2022 July 31, 2022
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