saying something that you don't whole-heartedly belive in or mean. Similar to "tarofe" used in farsi, infignacious describes when someone says one thing, but they mean another. This condition may describe a situation where someone is too shy, or trying to be very polite about an offer given.
Nima is an infignacious young man, he was offered a plate of khoresht, but said "no thank you, i'm not very hungry" even though he hadn't ate in hours! What a polite gentleman. *wink wink*
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.