A gay guy that's generally effeminate but not as flashy as richer west coast gays. The gay next door is a mid-western/Southern species that tends to be naive, idealistic, and slightly more conservative. Think Chris Colfer from Glee, Trixie Mattel out of drag, or the one gay teenager you went to High School with who was middlingly popular. They're good to have around because they're wholesome enough as not to scare the straight people. He's the type to go on a Grindr date and start wedding planning the next day.
by xXxBilliexXx April 03, 2022