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themfriend 

Person you are in a non-traditional relationship with.
My themfriend and I went to the movies yesterday.
themfriend by Sammieboo3 December 9, 2016

Theyfriend 

A partner whose preferred pronouns are they/them, thus the terms "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" are inappropriate.
"Hey Kyle, how's it going with your new theyfriend?"

"Great! I really think they're the one!"
Theyfriend by OmblissJuice September 16, 2021

theyfriend 

a theyfriend is not a girlfriend and not a boyfriend. it refers to your significant other that goes by they/ them.
Me: Yo who is that?
Adrian: Who them? Thats my theyfriend.
theyfriend by downbadforboth September 29, 2021

Treefriend 

Seattle based activist committed to the elimination of
the petroleum powered internal combustion engine, re-greening Seattle, removing 75% of all pavement in Seattle, and revoking corporate personhood and all rights afford them therein.
That dude in the Birks is farther left than Treefriend.
Treefriend by Otto Blabbo July 30, 2007

Therafriend 

A therafriend is a friend who acts as your therapist - both truly listening and also truly offering pointed and objective advice when you need it. You speak to your therafriend often and they are up to date on your relationships, family dynamics and work situation.
I spoke to my therafriend at length about her and the conclusion was that it simply isn't going to work out.
Therafriend by BostonMan September 6, 2014

Theyfriend 

Much like boyfriend or girlfriend, "theyfriend" is a gender neutral term that can be used for your genderfluid/agender/etc significant other that uses neutral pronouns.
"I'm going to see my theyfriend today! I love them so much~"
Word of the Day on July 2, 2019
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
Word of the Day on October 24, 2026

Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
Word of the Day on October 23, 2026

Plate of Brown 

A plate of brown consists of foods that have little to no nutritional value, and are typically deep fried. A true plate of brown will also be accompanied by a dark soda.
Wanna go to meal hall & grab a plate of brown?
Plate of Brown by Cheddar Craigson September 18, 2020
Word of the Day on October 22, 2026
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