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subconscious flirting 

verb:

1. The act of getting the interest of another person, usually of the opposite gender, without putting thought into it before doing it, and capturing that person's attention. A function of an individual's personality.

2. What an individual is doing when he or she flirts without even knowing his or her actions are perceived as some type of flirt, whether it be simply making a wise crack for a smiling; or, with direct eye contact and raised eyebrows, a simple innocent flirt could be perceived as having a more romantic tone.

Either way, over time, it can lead to serious attraction.
Women discuss how a guy is so funny and he's such a flirt.

He thinks he can't flirt and he completely misses that he is perceived that way by a majority of women with which he comes into contact each day. All he knows is that he makes wisecracks that get a laugh from the ladies and he loves an audience, the smaller the better. What he does is subconscious flirting, and he may be perceived as a persistent, non-stop, incessant flirt without intending to be.

Weeks, months, years or decades later, someone clues him in to the previously-existing or newly-found magnetic attraction.
subconscious flirting by Annie Nomus December 26, 2011

Subconscious Attention Seeker 

This term is used to describe a person who instinctively butts into a conversation without real thought and blurs out an obviously untrue response just for attention.
Jamie: "Hey Kieran, sorry to hear about your tongue"

Kieran: "Thanks, there I was skipping along and I just bit my tongue and now it's bleeding."

Robyn: "Hey did you guys say something about a tongue? I once bit my tongue off and it grew back in 2 days!"

Jamie: "Sure it did..."

Kieran: "Oh leave her alone, you know she's a subconscious attention seeker and will say anything to look cool"

Jamie: "Fair play"

subconscious racism 

when people are kinda racist and stereotype but dont even know it. people who are quick to jump up and accuse a ghetto black bitch of being annoying, but when a bunch of white people are loud and obnoxious they think its just fun.
ghetto bitch: oooo gurl you did not just do too much!!!!
subconcious racist: ugh so loud and ghetto
annoying white douchebag : woooah!!! im totally gonna pork stacy tonight!!!!!

annoying white bitch: omg! brad ur so hilarious!!!!! hahahaha!!!
subconscious racist: aw... those guys are havin fun
guy with a brain: that is subconscious racism dude.
subconscious racist: what?

subconscious intuition

One's ability to purposely commit an inadvertent act, without any type of forethought.

The ability to act upon immediate cognition.
Evan's subconscious intuition led him to stab his girlfriend during a live news report which she was brodcasting from Times Square. That was not a smooth move; It landed him 20 years of solitary confinement.

subconscious fucking

the act of sex in a dream
man i so had a dream i slept with her what a case of subconscious fucking
subconscious fucking by mro November 16, 2007

Subconscious Creeping 

When someone creeps and they don't even know it
Stacy was subconscious creeping on her whole friends list, and didn't notice it until half an hour later.
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Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

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