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The realization that there aren't any main characters in the world and everyone has a complex life, thoughts, crushes, relatives, dreams and mind just as your own.

Essentially whilst you're the main character in your life, you're also a background character in someone else's.
The knowledge that both I and you reading this are actual people like the remaining 8 billion of us is making sonder hit me like a truck.
sonder by B O I B O I March 6, 2022
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ssond • sondre • Sonder • Shonda • smonday • sond • Sondos • Shonda Rhimes • Shondell • shondo
Mysterious Vtuber British girl (alleged not crab girl) that lures unsuspecting people to her house in rural England. She subject her victims to a combination of high pitched screeches, soothing voices and random trivia.
Refuses to be called "Shnidoo".
Man, that Shondo girl sure is a cutey pie. I want to hug her and give her all my money!
Shondo by Jigokuhana February 2, 2023
Sondous pronounced as "Sendes" is simply amazing. She's kind, beautiful and ambitious. And not to mention how her voice and laugh can make your day. If you find a Sondous you better "catch her" because you will be glad that you took the chance to have this amazing person in your life.
Girl/guy: OMG look! I wonder if that's a Sondous.

Girl/guy2: that's obviously a Sondous. She slays
sondous by tofflah123 April 21, 2016
Sonder is the realization that everybody around you, even strangers, are living a life just as complex as yours. Sometimes your hurting so bad and you feel your the only one. But after all your hardships you start to realize that everybody is so unique and you aren't the only one. Everybody lives are so indescribably different and there is no way you will ever understand their lives. To sum it up you are realizing that your not the only one living with such chaos and complexity. All people lives are unique, strange, chaotic, and complex, just like yours. Your not alone.
I lay in bed so deep in my thoughts, the darkness was all around me while, slowly, the sonder started to kick in. I then realized that not only me, but all seven point fifty three billion people in this world which they are constantly living despite my personal lack of awareness of it.
sonder by _i_found_it_mom_ July 29, 2019
The anxiety and sadness you get on Sunday when you realise it's Monday the next day.
"Smonday urghh "
"Nooo, it feels like Smonday"
Smonday by -Chloe- October 28, 2019
The realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own — populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries, and inherited craziness — an epic story that continues invisibility around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.
The sonder of it all
Sonder by franzimash October 29, 2020
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