That very special place the submissive or masochist enters when he/she reaches a natural chemical high and/or change in mental and/or emotional balance of the brain chemistry, and state of mind. Best achieved when total trust is in place with his/her Dominant, and one totally immerses themselves in an intense BDSM scene. Note: The sub may not be capable of making rational decisions about his/her safety and well-being at this point, thus it is the responsibility of the Dom to provide for the welfare of his/her sub, this is known as, "aftercare".
In a D/s relationship, that very special place the submissive enters when he/she totally trusts his/her Dominant, and totally immerses in an intense scene. The sub may not be capable of making rational decisions about his/her safety and well-being at this point.
It is the responsibility of the Dom to provide for the welfare of his/her sub, as he/she has trusted him to do. It is also the Dom's responsibility after the scene to help the sub to return to "vanilla space" after the scene. This entails providing both physical and emotional assurance to the sub, until he/she regains his/her sense of self, and is known as, "aftercare".
Dom: "Sweetie?" Hey... it's time to come back. You made me very happy today, and I love you." <Kisses sub on the neck>
sub: "Sir? Sorry... i was gone for awhile. You know, in subspace. i'm so happy i made you happy. i'd really like to do that again sometime, if it pleases You".
Subspace is a place a submissive in BDSM can obtain, when a Master controls the situation in play. This can be from mental, physical, or emotion conditioning from the person who will Dominate you honestly and with care. The sub gives submission to a Master as a gift. Trusting a Master is an important situation in BDSM roleplaying.
Subspace is a serotonin rush from being dominated. I feel completely safe, relaxed, loving, and in heaven for about 4 hours, when I am in subspace. Some equate it, with the effect of doing heroin. It is without drug use. Unless it is the drug of letting another have you completely.
Comfort in knowing one's self. Not to say you know yourself completely. Not being narcissistic and saying I'm better than this. Just closing your eyes and feeling that little hum that is your own tune and knowing that it is yours alone. Just remember while this time is needed that tune or instrument sounds better with the whole band
A place where you are meant to be. It’s a special place where you enjoy every breath you take and you feel truly free. It’s a place where your soul belongs.
Slutspace: (noun) is defined as a promiscuous man/woman who accents either their sexually revealing tendencies thru myspace; Or who expresses a lack of physical restraint on myspace secretly. This species is indigenous to warm coastal & tropical regions where tanorexia & insecurities are common. However, sightings of the plastic species have also been reported inland.