1) to call someone out on their efforts to bring attention to themselves, or to expose
exaggerated behavior unrealized by the subject; used most frequently among gay men in a jovial, playful and good-natured context.
2) a purposefully ambiguous expression used among gay men that connotes a general feeling of enjoyment, contentment within a social context, such as a party or club
3) a term that acknowledges and celebrates the unity, rarity and value of like-mindedness among a
circle of friends and/or subculture at large.
to
essentially declare: "I know you're a mess right now despite your thinly veiled attempts to disguise it, but I'm a mess too, work it, hey gurl hey."