A trend developing especially within the younger sets of the American straight
male population defined by behaviors rejecting traditional notions of masculinity. This can include the wearing of traditionally feminine articles of clothing such as the color
pink and girl pants. It also includes an attitude of rejection towards tested definitions of manhood in favor of feminine counterparts. Part of the cause of this trend is the mocking of the
adult male within the popular culture as a pre-requisite of
hip personhood. This popular culture contempt was combined with a diminishment of the
father within the home vis a vis the rising divorce rate and the erosion of the relevance of the labor movement; which led to greater coercive top-down work environment realities, which in turn left more fathers with less to teach their sons about being vigorous
men. Coupled with the rise of Feminism and the branding of vigorous masculinity as an erroneous danger to women's values; without any aknowledgement of the empathy and depth that can coexist with masculine vigor. This led to a fragmentation of vision of what exactly constituted an adult American
male. The fragmentation with no teaching has led to significant portions of young
men attempting to receive initiation in adult behaviors and morays from women. As a result of this a
male within the sphere of
De-Masculinization will often more strongly identify with female siblings and friends than with other
men, due to his lack of
knowledge regarding masculine feeling and self. The prominence of De-Masculinization within the larger culture contributes to an ever larger number of perpetual boys who will delay the onset of adult
male understanding and responsability. Postulated programs for the reverse of this trend include mentoring programs and the mythopoetic
men's movement.
Observer 1:
That guy in the sagging girl pants and the pink shirt looks really
gay.
Observer 2: He's probably not
gay, it's just another symptom of the De-Masculinization of the American youth.
