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a lesbian that uses he/him pronouns
cis person: he's a hesbian? doesn't that just make him a straight guy? 😡😡
person with at least 10 oz of brain: uhh, last time i checked, pronouns don't always equal gender? that's not a man? how did you get into my house?
hesbian by k66gunso September 12, 2020
a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.

being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.

hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!
person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a trans guy?
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!
hesbian by stuglies October 3, 2020

hellesbian 

An angry, frustrated lesbian who is always upset with men for anything, straight women who aren't sympathetic with her lifestyle or other lesbians who aren't interested in creating drama. She is constantly complaining, always annoyed with someone or forever unhappy about something. lesbian, lipstick lesbian, femme, butch lesbian, dyke, lesbos, bisexual, homosexual, heterosexual, lgbt, queer
This woman was ranting about her girlfriend and how she was cheating on her with a guy. She had 8 vodkas and was fuming about her girlfriend, men and the plight of lesbians everywhere. I know, she was a total hellesbian.
hellesbian by joecoolthefool January 17, 2016
hesbians ARE valid
hesbian by howellovebot September 25, 2020
a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns

often invalidated by gatekeeping bigots who think pronouns = gender and unable to let others be happy
hesbian: hey i'm a wlw but i use he/him i hope that's alright
she/her lesbian: that's fine with me, your identity, your choice :)
hesbian by lunalucifer666 October 12, 2020

heylesbians 

Heylesbians, name to call the drippiest person ever
Heylesbians is so drippy
heylesbians by qrroq March 7, 2021