a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are
comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.
being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for
gender non conforming/drag, just
for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.
hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!