a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.
being a
lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/
drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “
right” way to be a hesbian.
hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love.
go hug a local hesbian today!
person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a trans
guy?
person b:
nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay,
thank you for telling me!