hesbian 

a lesbian that uses he/him pronouns

cis person: he's a hesbian? doesn't that just make him a straight guy? 😡😡
person with at least 10 oz of brain: uhh, last time i checked, pronouns don't always equal gender? that's not a man? how did you get into my house?

hesbian by k66gunso September 12, 2020

hesbian 

a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.

being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.

hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!

person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a trans guy?
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!

hesbian by stuglies October 3, 2020

hesbian 

lesbian with he/him pronouns

hesbians ARE valid

hesbian by howellovebot September 25, 2020

hesbian 

a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns

often invalidated by gatekeeping bigots who think pronouns = gender and unable to let others be happy

hesbian: hey i'm a wlw but i use he/him i hope that's alright
she/her lesbian: that's fine with me, your identity, your choice :)

hesbian by lunalucifer666 October 12, 2020

Hesbian 

A woman or non-binary person who uses he/him pronouns and is a lesbian. They are not men. Lesbians who use these pronouns may have a disconnect with womanhood. Pronouns do not necessarily mean gender. You are allowed to use whatever pronouns make you comfortable. Stop gatekeeping identities and lesbianism. Hesbians and theysbians are valid.

Person 1: Sarah is a Hesbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: He is a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns and you should respect his identity.

Hesbian by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020

hesbian 

non binary lesbians that use he/him pronouns. he/him lesbians are NOT male but non binary. pronouns do not always equate to gender.

skyler came out as a hesbian last week, I’m so proud of him!

hesbian by doyoufart October 13, 2020

hesbian 

short for he/him lesbian. aka a "lesbian" who uses he/him despite that set of pronouns being strictly gendered to men.

normal lesbians: can the hesbians please stop invading our spaces we just want to be left alone

hesbians: GRR BARK WOOF AWOOO BARK BARK WOOF GRRRR

hesbian by catsappu April 3, 2021