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Gay But Not Gay Best Friend 

A friend so close, you can send nudes and they'll either compliment you in a way that's uplifting, and not sexual, or they'll make fun of you because they're an asshole. The will talk about the guys you talk to, and act like they want in their pants, bends most of them want in your pants. It's a balancement for you. Your gay but not gay best friend, would reply to a random person who attempts to get with you, or they would reply to nudes someone random has sent you. They will probably roast you from time to time because of the mistakes you've made. Which friends don't remind other friends of their mistakes, but a gay but not gay BEST friend will, so perhaps you'll be reminded, and learn from the mistakes you've made. If one of your exes that cheated on you tries to get back with you... you're gay but not gay best friend will confront him, so you don't have to say anything. A gay but not gay best friend, is a friend for life. Cherish them, and call them an asshole from time to time. Can also be pronounced (Not Gay But Gay Best Friend)
My Gay But Not Gay Best Friend told my ex to fuck off, and suck on a STD infested clit.

gay but not gay 

A person who has gay tendencies, attracts all the same homosexual gender, and sometimes dresses gay but is heterosexual.
I wish Dylan wasn’t such a gay, but not gay person. I’d totally date him.

Kelly is gay but not gay with her Tom boy looks.
gay but not gay by Onlyme4you April 26, 2020

Gay but not gay 

Basically your gay but your not lesbian or gay but you gay in your words.
Me:Omg im so gay
Bestie:samee im gay but not gay

Kinda gay but not gay enough 

"I'm kinda gay but not gay enough"

nongay gay 

Someone who looks, talks, and has never dated someone of the opposite gender but claims to not be gay even though everyone knows they are
friend 1- “Logan thinks he’s gay, so do i”
person- *in high voice* “I AM NOT GAY YOU FRIED CHICKEN FUCK”

friend 2- “okay so you’re a nongay gay”
nongay gay by wutthefrickdy October 25, 2017

im not gay 

The phrase most often spoken right before someone says some gay shit.
Im not gay, but if i was I'd fuck that guy.
im not gay by Very good name August 20, 2020
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briefcake 

"Did you check out the briefcake in courtroom C?"
briefcake by Ben Frey April 6, 2006
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Brought to public attention by Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein in the book on the fall of Richard Nixon, All The President’s Men, ratfucker was Nixon’s term for a political operative who sows chaos among opponents; an agent provocateur. It is thought to have originated among campus political rivalries at USC, and seems to have some usage in the US military.
Along with Nixon’s other ratfuckers, Roger Stone caused fights at otherwise peaceful Democratic Party protests to generate a false narrative that the Democrats were violent and dangerous.
Ratfucker by Ricky Ramjet November 2, 2017
Word of the Day on November 2, 2026

countrypolitan 

Term used to describe someone who is a mix of both rural (country) and urban (metropolitan) lifestyles/upbringings. He/she is typically equally comfortable in both settings and is able to seamlessly slip back and forth between the two, appreciating the characteristics of each.
That ol' gal of mine drives the 12 lane freeway during the week and a John Deere on the weekends. She likes opra and the Grand Ol' Opry. I love them countrypolitan women.
countrypolitan by MOChick November 7, 2006
Word of the Day on November 1, 2026

Witch Bath 

A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

An excuse for people to write porn with different types of kinks throughout the month of October.

Smut Fanfiction
That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
Word of the Day on October 30, 2026

proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
Word of the Day on October 29, 2026
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