(n) 1. a woman who practices BDSM in everyday life; a woman who controls her partner mentally and physically, usually in a sexual way. Vanilla people categorize this type of lifestyle as kinky. The Dominatrix is stereotypically pictured as wearing stilleto boots,
black leather outfit, and hold a
whip.
2. a woman who gets paid to control a person, usually in a sexual way.
3. female counterpart of a
Dom