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deshamify 

To remove the shame from oneself or another person.

We are often socialized and shamed out of our full erotic and self expression. Deshamifying is an active intervention used to lower shame in oneself or another person. This term was created by Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel, co-founders of the Somatica Institute.
I used to be so ashamed of my desires and afraid of being "too much." Ever since my Somatica coach helped me deshamify my desires I'm so much more comfortable owning who I am and what I want!
deshamify by sam_charles March 17, 2025
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Desnagify 

To un snag a wire or cable from an obstacle.
We had to desnagify the masts cables from the boat hooks.
Desnagify by zizithecat July 30, 2019
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deshitify 

(v.) To remove undesirable qualities from a faulty entity.
"If I don't deshitify this essay, I'll surely receive a poor grade."
"Your bong is full of air leaks. A little electrical tape would help deshitify it."
"At this point, only intensive counseling will deshitify my life."
deshitify by My name will be blank! December 23, 2009

Deshackify 

The process of removing from your household the personal items of a shacker in order to prepare for company that may be unaware of the existance of the shacker.
Susie: Want to get a drink tonight?
Debbie: No thanks, I have to deshackify my house-my mom is coming in town tomorrow and she doesn't know about Peter!
Deshackify by Marguerite's mom February 19, 2012

de-shamify 

The intentional act of lowering one's personal shame around an issue through unconditional love, joining in, celebrating, shaking our fists at our repressive cultures, and normalizing protective mechanisms. Originated from the Somatica Method, created by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman.
My client had so much shame around her kinks until we spent time de-shamifying, now she's having the time of her life embracing what turns her on!
de-shamify by sam_charles March 27, 2024

DeShaiyaH 

A fine ass bitch with good pussy smell good.loves Dreadheads and dark skins
Dame DeShaiyaH that bitch
DeShaiyaH by Shiski November 20, 2023
When a vibe coder, translates AI written code to look human written.
bro our assignment is due tomorrow, we gotta dechatify it tonight.
dechatify by jbc_ December 6, 2025
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