LGBTQ+ (usually) labels that seem to contradict each other, used simultaneously.
A few examples: straight gay, lesboy, turigirl, afab trans woman, etc.
These identities
don't have to make sense to you, as labels are meant to reflect one'
s own perception of themselves. Plus, language and culture are constantly evolving.
Remember: diminishing other queer
people for having atypical experiences is ultimately unhelpful in our acceptance.
Sometimes, these labels are used to better describe someone'
s experiences with gender and sexuality — for example, an intersex AFAB woman may still identify as
transgender because they feel it best describes them.
person 1: i identify as straight and gay.
person 2: i
don't fully understand contradictory labels, but i respect you because you know yourself best
person 1: thanks! i'm
dating your mom and
dad btw
person 2: what the fuck