LGBTQ+ (usually) labels that seem to contradict each other, used simultaneously.
A few examples: straight
gay, lesboy, turigirl, afab trans woman, etc.
These identities don't have to make sense to you, as labels are meant to reflect one's own perception of themselves. Plus, language and culture are constantly evolving.
Remember: diminishing other queer
people for having atypical experiences is ultimately unhelpful in our acceptance.
Sometimes, these labels are used to better describe someone's experiences with gender and sexuality — for example, an intersex AFAB woman
may still identify as
transgender because they feel it best describes them.
person 1: i identify as straight and
gay.
person 2: i don't fully understand contradictory labels, but i respect you because you know yourself best
person 1: thanks! i'm
dating your mom and
dad btw
person 2: what the fuck