LGBTQ+ (usually) labels that seem to contradict each other, used simultaneously.
A few examples: straight gay, lesboy, turigirl, afab trans
woman, etc.
These identities don't have to make sense to you, as labels are meant to reflect one'
s own perception of themselves. Plus, language and culture are constantly evolving.
Remember: diminishing other queer people for having atypical experiences is ultimately unhelpful in our acceptance.
Sometimes, these labels are used to better describe someone's experiences with
gender and sexuality — for example, an intersex AFAB
woman may still identify as transgender because they feel it best describes them.
person 1: i identify as
straight and gay.
person 2: i don't fully understand contradictory labels, but i
respect you because you know yourself best
person 1: thanks! i'm dating your mom and
dad btw
person 2: what the fuck