“Gay men tend to be attracted to everything about a man, the sights, the sounds, the smells, the feet (eiw), the socks (double eiw) and on and on. Everything man, all day, everyday. They want to hold hands with a man, kiss a man and build a life with a man.
Men like my husband are not at all interested in kissing and
holding hands and being romantic with a fellow. He cannot even envision it. He has never topped a guy because he does not feel he could maintain an erection to fuck a man. He does, however, love the DICK. The term I made up for this is "cocksexual.” Men who love the cock and the sex part but the male body and appearance is not the same turn on that a female’s body is.
This explains the prevalence of tgirl porn and gloryholes. A woman with a penis. A penis in space with no male body. There’s a rather large and
interesting audience of cocksexuals. Why else would porn just show COCK?
I consider myself pansexual, in that I am attracted to men and women and I would have a
relationship with anyone of any
orientation if I liked that person. I have met very few men like me, although it exists. Men are more about the cock. Kinda turns me on.“