When a manjob or a brojob just is not enough to help out your best of friends. Budsex might be in order. It is where your best friend may penetrate you anally for his own intense personal pleasure.
It is not gay.
Bro#1 : Hey bro, I know she dumped you and I see how down you have been, even after several manjobs. Since it's your birthday, how about some budsex? My treat!
Bro#2 Bro, that would be awesome, it would really help me out.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)