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The girl's name Bessy is "God's promise; God is my oath". She is also beautiful and sexy. Quiet and incredibly intelligent. She has a great sense of humor but speaks her mind. Some people consider her mean, some just consider her honest. She won't allow anyone to step over her. She will never try to play mind games. She means what she says and says what she means.
Damn, Bessy is one of a kind!
Bessy by Damitri_1987 December 12, 2010
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bessay • Bestay • Beesays • bessam • Bussay • bussayy69 • bassay • besfay • beshayer • bessa
Another word for bestie, used in a British accent.
“Chloe is Stacia’s bestay.”
Bestay by Staciaay January 11, 2021
Attack!

A war cry used by ancient Apaches. Bassay stems loosely from the word 'biishiit' which in the Arapaho language means "Attack".
Enemy on the hill! Bassay!
bassay by articsnipershot August 13, 2017
An wide ranging insult meaning someone that can't take a joke, a general twat or someone that annoys you.
Michael is such an annoying wee bessant!

John is a blue blistering bessant
Bessant by Rusty Ovlov December 15, 2020
A portmanteau of blog and essay, coined by British comedian, author, and television host Stephen Fry.

These entries are considerably longer than a typical blog post, and more thoughtfully composed. Their serious nature allows for both intelligent rumination and sly wit.
Stephen Fry has written many an insightful blessay.

I hope Stephen's arm heals so that he can write another blessay soon.
blessay by Alan Davies June 22, 2008
1. A word used during extreme excitement. The word is very similar to "Bossy" but with the only difference of extenuating the "ay" in "Bossay". Term was first created when a group of Penn State University Students went to Kiawah Island, SC in March of 2006/2007/2008/2009

2. Bossay can also be used as a notion of coolness, wealth or gratitude.
She doesn’t want it in the steam shower, she wants it at the beach ... Bossay!

I'm rich as shit, Bossay!!!!
Bossay by blupsu August 20, 2009
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No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
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EBK stands for "Elite Ball Knowledge." 1 In internet slang, "ball knowledge" originally referred to a deep understanding of football/soccer or basketball, but it has evolved into a broader term for having a highly sophisticated, deep, or niche understanding of any specific topic (such as music, movies, or subcultures).
Person A: "That scene was a direct homage to an unreleased 1982 Japanese indie film."
Person B: "Wow, EBK."
EBK by silwhett November 5, 2026
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A seemingly endless debate with a idiot
I don't know man im not ready for yap trap stupidity today which always tries to suck you into it
Yap Trap by WolfieSnack November 4, 2026
Word of the Day on November 5, 2026
Texas is categorized as a swing state in presidential elections, but has voted for Republicans more times than for Democrats in recent history. As such, as demographics change political alignments, some Democrats believe that Texas will vote blue, or Democratic, due to their Hispanic and African American voters, who often align themselves with the Democratic Party's liberal wing.

Blexas has been cited as possible in the upcoming decades, but only if Democrats continue to win the Hispanic vote in bigger margins.
Democrat 1: What is your prediction for the 2024 presidential election?
Democrat 2: Well uh, Blexas!
Democrat 1: You've been saying that since 2008 though.
Blexas by Tritonist June 14, 2021
Word of the Day on November 4, 2026

briefcake 

"Did you check out the briefcake in courtroom C?"
briefcake by Ben Frey April 6, 2006
Word of the Day on November 3, 2026
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