Sasslighting
Sasslighting by CheeseySauce May 31, 2018
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Yasslighting
A pun based off the term gaslighting when a person or group of persons (typically a comment section) blatantly lie to gas up an ugly person trying to pull off a look they shouldn't with "yasss queen slay girl boss" energy. Typically this will be skinny girls telling fat girls they look amazing in skintight revealing outfits complimenting their "confidence" so that they can look better in comparison or handmaidens and trans people telling other trans people how awesome and feminine they look in anime outfits they got off wish or masculine they look while still in makeup, jewelry, and neon hair dye.
Did you see all the yasslighting going on in the comments of that Lizzo post?
Yea it was almost as bad watching Dylan Mulvaney and that other trans person on his tick tock with all the facial hair telling each other how great they are at girlhood
Yea it was almost as bad watching Dylan Mulvaney and that other trans person on his tick tock with all the facial hair telling each other how great they are at girlhood
Yasslighting by 2Based2Care February 22, 2023
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Asslighting
Jake ripped ass last night mid sentence and just carried on talking as if nothing happened. It left me doubting everything. I’m sick of guys asslighting me!
Asslighting by ooc is serious business August 22, 2018
YassLighting
The opposite of gas lighting when a bunch of people, usually liberal white women, provide transparently untrue compliments to someone in order to make them feel better.
An example of Yasslighting in a conversation would be
oh yeah "Michaela" you totally look like a pretty woman! You look prettier than most cis girls, I wish I could slay like that.
oh yeah "Michaela" you totally look like a pretty woman! You look prettier than most cis girls, I wish I could slay like that.
YassLighting by Soupburger March 25, 2023
Yasslighting
Yasslighting -
When a stupid woman encourages another stupid woman to engage in demoralizing, deviant, and destructive behaviors.
Examples:
Girl 1: posts a pic eating cupcakes, is obviously obese.
Girl 2: YASSS! You go girl! You're a BBW!
Girl 1: I just divorced my husband, and now I'm a single mom and things aren't as rosy as I thought they'd be.
Girl 2: Fuck him, girl! You don't need a man! Keep being strong and independent! You got this!
Girl 1: Mom's watching the kids tonight, think I'll go to the club and be a slut.
Girl 2: YASS girl! Fuck the patriarchy!
Misery loves company. If someone is encouraging you to do something you know in your heart is wrong, they are NOT your friend.
When a stupid woman encourages another stupid woman to engage in demoralizing, deviant, and destructive behaviors.
Examples:
Girl 1: posts a pic eating cupcakes, is obviously obese.
Girl 2: YASSS! You go girl! You're a BBW!
Girl 1: I just divorced my husband, and now I'm a single mom and things aren't as rosy as I thought they'd be.
Girl 2: Fuck him, girl! You don't need a man! Keep being strong and independent! You got this!
Girl 1: Mom's watching the kids tonight, think I'll go to the club and be a slut.
Girl 2: YASS girl! Fuck the patriarchy!
Misery loves company. If someone is encouraging you to do something you know in your heart is wrong, they are NOT your friend.
"Becky, you need to quit listening to Karen, she's Yasslighting you. She's jealous of you, and wants to bring you down to her level."
Yasslighting by K1lay June 3, 2023
Masslighting
The art of gaslighting applied to crowds of gullible nincompoops of varying degrees predisposed to the delusion.
"President Trump, in a forte of masslighting, told his rally that he would be gracious if he lost the election."
Masslighting by red phillips December 6, 2020
Asslighting
When your kid or spouse drops a bomb in the toilet and doesn't flush. And then claims it was your fault.
Asslighting by Zack Morris Day October 7, 2020
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