RaeClaire is a beautiful, super kind hearted person! She is really fun to be around and is extremely funny!! Anyone would be lucky to have a RaeClaire in their life:)
Any insult specific to a social group that members of that group have over time began to call eachother by, thus making it ineffective. However, it is considered inappropriate that an outsider to that group uses the term for fear fo being branded prejudiced.
Basically it's a lesbian that's been with men in the past but they treated her so badly it traumatized her in a way and she just went with women and will never go back to men