The feeling of disappointment or irritation that comes from finding that certain feelings or mind frames that should have been left ambiguous have been defined and named
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churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.