When gay men waste time (theirs and others') indulging in stereotypically gay pursuits (e.g., gossiping, backbiting, cattiness, calling each other "girl!") while trying to make a decision.
when two gay guys slap each others left testicle, followed by extreme licking of the adams apple,then swift sticking of the big toe into their right nostril, and then making PB and J sandwiches