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haterbate 

To masturbate to a past significant other after you had a nasty break up because you still have great naked pics of them and/or awesome sex memories.
Bro 1: Mayn i jerked it hella hard last night.

Bro 2: Did you go on Redtube bro?

Bro 1: Nah I looked at the nudies Molly had sent me before we split.

Bro 2: Bro you hardcore Haterbated... nice.

bro 1 "high five" bro 2
haterbate by scooterchill April 18, 2011

Haterbate 

Stroking from pure hate instead of pleasure.
I only look at pictures of my ex while I haterbate.
Haterbate by HonestMistake May 31, 2018
Harvatero (or Harbatero) is a male GRO (Guest Relations Officer)--nightclub worker in asia. Masculine version of Harvatera. Related to "Husto" in Japan.

ETYMOLOGY CLAIMS: Attention IPO PHIL WIPO Intellectual Property Rights countries: Harvatera Harvatero Harvat Harbat HarbateraLV LV LVPH are all being used IN COMMERCE with claims in all Nice Classifications in WIPO thru IPO PHIL 4-2020-3134 registered to Victor Martin Soriano, HarvateraLV and such claims are all to be applied in first-to-use intellectual property countries or wherever claims are valid to the fullest extent of international law(s).
Antonio is a Harbatero in Tokyo.
Harbatero by Harvatero June 20, 2021

harbatera 

Harbatera has the same meaning as Harvatera. Harvatera is a Guest Relations Officer (G.R.O.) usually in the Macao area or Southern China area.
Karen works as a Harbatera in a Macao club.
harbatera by Osting Macao March 26, 2020

hiberbate 

To pass the winter in a dormant or torpid state of excessive masturbation.
as a verb:
"All he did last winter was hiberbate."
as a noun:
"This smallness of this town is conducive to hiberbation."
or
"I envy that particular individual for his consummate position as an avid hiberbator."
hiberbate by downbeat March 14, 2004

HARBATERA 

A Harbatera is a guest relations officer (GRO) working in a male club in aaia.
Karen works as a Harbatera at the Hong Kong Club.
HARBATERA by VP Osting Macao March 26, 2020
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026

pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
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