To
hate date is the sexual equivalent of having a "frienemy."
It's part masochistic and part lazy, but it always means that you
hate yourself and the other person and are allowing the relationship to be dragged out. The purposes of
hate-dating is for the sex, which can range from satisying to
ok to laughably bad. You might keep the person around because they're fun and the sex is wack, or the sex game is good and the person means
shit to you.
If one person is cheating or trying to degrade the other to gratify their own insecurities, and/or if the relationship has been drawn out and on the downturn, both parties are
hate-dating. For highly dysfunctional and broken people, all they know is
hate-dating, because it's a place to dump all your fucked up unconscious feels at once, affirming the way you feel about yourself and the opposite sex
I realized I kept boo around to
hate date when all I did was talk
shit.
I'm not committed- I'm committed to
hate-dating.
