Someone who swindles people out of money through fraudulent business practices, behaves as to holding absolute power by bossing others around, ie: a snake oil salesman
It wasn’t until after most of her savings was gone that she realized her new friend was actually a GrifTator.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.