fresbian defines the intense friendship a lesbian has with her girl friends before realizing she is actually a lesbian. A fresbian relationship usually ends with an intense, and somewhat irrational blow up or break up of the friendship.
Jane couldn't understand the jealous feelings she had when her best friend, Carly, went with Jason to the prom. She was so upset by it, she drove to the prom, made a scene and ended their friendship. It wasn't until four years later when Jane was finally in a lesbian relationship with Dawn that she understood she had been in an intense fresbian relationship with Carly.
Fresbian: a person of heterosexual orientation whose life is intensely affected by his/her lesbian friends and/or family; literally "friend of a lesbian"
A fresbian is a friend of lesbians (at least one), who supports them and does not judge their lifestyle. Lesbians may bring intense drama to the lives of their heterosexual friends, but fresbians do not abandon them. On the contrary, they counsel and console the lesbians. Fresbians often reach a comfort level where they may joke about lesbianism, without it being offensive to their homosexual friend.
She's such a good fresbian, she deals with all the drama and is stillfriends with her lesbian peers.