When your you or your friend has been listening to too much Lana Del Reymusic that they have become slightly depressed, and started to ask your single dad what they've been up to.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.