Frame control is the
little-known underlying phenomenon that dictates the outcome of every social interaction. It originates from the domain of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and how we
humans categorize different situations into subjective psychological categories. A frame is an instrument you use to package your power, authority, strength, information and status.
Almost all high-performance speakers use frame control to control the
flow and outcome of a conversation.
It is, in essence, the
act of imposing a mental/psychological viewpoint on any situation and forcing that situation to "conform" to that frame or belief. This is a fundamental component of self-motivation and social intelligence.
It generates an invisible energy field around you. The
art of frame control requires unconscious conviction in your ideas as
well as congruency between your intentions, speech patterns, and body language.
The
art of frame control is most commonly used by PUA (pick up artist) and salesmen and is based on the laws of levels of consciousness.
Examples of
basic PUA frame control:
Society frame: If a girl has sex with a lot of
men, she is a slut.
Alpha male frame: Sex is healthy, normal,
fun and a win-win for the girl and me. She wants to have sex with me so she can make a decision if we are a good fit for each other based off our chemistry.
