Skip to main content

xelgender 

Xelgender is a gender identity for people who identify with many genders at once but sometimes they may not identify with gender at all.

For example, I (vex), identify as xelgender, ghostfuzz, neoboy, and voidpunk or just nothing when i feel like that.
The first stripe (top to bottom) is for lack of gender, the second is for community, third for serenity, fourth for gender nonconformity, fifth for freedom, sixth for diversity, and the last stripe is for gender fluidity.

Xelgender pronunciation: zel gender
“Hey, how do you identify gender wise?”
“Oh, I identify as xelgender!”
xelgender by xelgender lord July 25, 2021
Urban Dictionary Merch
Your favorite words on things you can wear, drink from, read, or give to a friend.
The Urban Dictionary Store sells gifts you’ll have to explain.
A guy; lends x-rated porn "x-lender"
Tye: Hey brother, you here about Xlender? He gave me that good shit

Dan: Yeah bro... I was busy all day
Xlender by TyeTheGuy February 21, 2017

Xenogenderphobic

Also known as Xenophobic (from people who have no idea what Xenophobic actually means) are people who didn't call Dani by too/tooth (those are actual pronouns someone asked me to call them)
also if you are xenogenderphobic you are chad 👍
Person A: I'm Xenogenderphobic
Person B: Same
Dani: What are you guys talking abo-
Person A and Person B: Stfu tooth
Xenogenderphobic by Cassidyxox January 12, 2023

xenogenderphobic

person 1: im xenogenderphobic

person 2: same
xenogenderphobic by yag4ased February 3, 2022

Xenogender 

A Xenogender is a gender that is made for peoples interests/struggles. It is most commonly used by neurodivergentpeople because they have more intense interests than others. Some neurodivergent people have a more complicated relationship with gender so these help with that also!
Josh is autistic and using a xenogender helps them with being comfortable with their gender
Xenogender by m0nster sheep October 14, 2020

xenogender 

a xenogender is a gender identity outside of the binary (also known as neogenders), usually made by a neurodivergent person. some neurodivergent people interpret life and society differently. due to this, they may also interpret social constructs such as gender differently. a neurodivergent person may struggle trying to find a term that fits their gender so they take something of comfort and make a gender identitiy tied to it! hence a xenogender! most xenogenders are based on objects such as mindsets, plants, animals and other things people may find comfort in!
xenogenders are awesome!! it’s so great that people who may have trouble understanding gender are able to find terms that fit them
xenogender by R0SIE!! October 14, 2020

Xenogender 

Xenogender is a term that is used to refer to describe what someone's gender feels like to them. It is a great tool that many use to express their individuality and how they feel they are inside, and was originally intended to help neurodivergent people discuss their gender with others.

People who use xenogenders don't actually identify their gender as the word they've used prefacing "-gender". (ex. cat-gender doesn't mean that person identifies as a cat.)

There is a misconception that using one of these makes someone trans and/or nonbinary. This is untrue. Xenogenders are made for everyone to find what describes them best, and even cisgender people can (and do) use them and new neopronouns to describe their more unique feelings of themselves to others.

However, it is primarily LGBT+ people, particularly nonbinary people, who use them currently. But that doesn't mean that you can assume the gender of someone based on a xenogender identity. (For example, binary trans people use these as well, and using a xenogender doesn't make them a nonbinary person.)
"I heard that person is using a xenogender catgender and cat pronouns now. What, they identify as a cat?"

"Actually, no. Someone who is cat gender isn't identifying as a cat. They aren't trans-species. That person probably feels that cat's gender is small and warm or something like that. I'm sure cat would be willing to explain it to you if you asked cat."
Xenogender by aerokat January 21, 2022
More from Urban Dictionary

fauxstalgia 

Faux nostalgia. Faking old things in an attempt to recapture the feeling of times gone past, especially of technology that has passed.
Hipstamatic pictures, just like the vinyl-static added to digital recordings, is prime fauxstalgia
fauxstalgia by scotte61 December 16, 2010
Word of the Day on October 15, 2026

pajama casual 

Pajama casual is a term used when working from home and preparing for a video conference. All business above the waist and your pajama pants down below.
We have a Zoom meeting in a few minutes and I’ll probably go pajama casual.
pajama casual by jrod-knows March 31, 2020
Word of the Day on October 14, 2026

funflation 

The recent boom in consumer spending on entertainment and experiences with a high demand running up the cost of enjoying of those experiences.
I’m trying to go to this Taylor Swift concert but the funflation has made it so impossible for me to afford tickets.
funflation by Dfree523 November 17, 2023
Word of the Day on October 13, 2026
A US deep south term for an alligator. Usually used in the Cajun dialect.
Take the big pirogue, I saw a huge swamp dog out there earlier.
swamp dog by Crystal Ambrose May 22, 2006
Word of the Day on October 12, 2026

Throat Sweats 

The feeling and build up in your mouth/throat of saliva that sometimes accompanies nausea.
Oh man those burritos gave me the throat sweats, I hope I don’t have food poisoning.
Throat Sweats by TacoFings420 April 23, 2024
Word of the Day on October 11, 2026
Being ignored by someone when making a statement or asking a question. Also known as blanked and turfed.
Person 1: Did u watch ** last nite?
Person 2:......
Person 3: O no u got aired!
aired by Pietro February 9, 2005
Word of the Day on October 10, 2026
Load more