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A triple mixed feeling when someone makes you upset, sad, and mad. Only people who keep their cool can get upsmad because they recognize the complexity of the situation, process it, and talk calmly to the person who is the source of the emotional puzzle.
And was pissed that Sophie only got upsmad after he said she was dead to him. That drama king wanted her to be ButtHurt.
upsmad by Lady Libertie April 7, 2016
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v. To angrily upmod something on a social news website such as Reddit or Digg.
Hey, a story about how George Bush is destroying the world. Upmadded.
upmad by vortistic October 9, 2008
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Cross between upset and sad.

Upset: to disturb emotionally
Sad: affected by unhappiness

Upsad: to be affected by unhappiness while being emotionally disturbed.
Dragana and Sharleen were discussing their experiences about the losers that had put them in a disturbed emotional state...

Dragana turned to Sharleen to ask..... are you upsad?

Sharleen responded... yes very.
upsad by dragonlily December 8, 2012
Well you feel upset and sad..
LankmasterJ: "Oh that was.. upsad.."
Upsad by JDYNStuff October 21, 2020
When you're upset and sad..

or you're bad at valorant.
LankMasterJ: "That was just.. upsad.."
Upsad by JDYNStuff October 21, 2020

shut-the-fuck-upsmanship

Knowing when to stay quiet and when to speak up; tact.
"You should practice some shut-the-fuck-upsmanship before your mouth writes checks your ass can't cash"
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