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Hot Totten is a rural, male gender equivalent of a "hot mess" (though hot mess began gender neutral; in
Sydney and New Zealand it has adopted a female association). The etymology of "totten" is still unknown but is likely a surname substituted
due to its rhyming nature.
In definition a Hot Mess is remaining attractive despite being disorganized or disheveled. Often a
Hot Totten is used to describe a person that is successful without have any real or documented skill.