tolyamorous

Coined by Dan Savage on the Episode.900 of the Savage Lovecast: Someone who puts up with their spouse having affairs — someone who tolerates a little cheating — but doesn't want to open the marriage officially isn't polyamorous. They're tolyamorous.

"Cameron cheats on Phoebe once in a while and he thinks he's fooling her but — lucky for Cam — Phoebe is tolyamorous."

by Molly Muchargasse January 23, 2024

tolyamorous

Practicing tolyamory; To accept or tolerate being in a polyamorous relationship

Hilary found herself in a tolyamorous relationship with Bill.

by Mac8585 March 31, 2024