A person uses a shake weight about chest high in front of their body. The weight is tilted slightly back pointed towards their face. After a short time motioning the weight up and down another person pours a shot into into the users mouth. Preferably something white and/or creamy like Baileys Irish Cream.
Wow my girlfriend did a shake weight shot at a party last night!
This is the drink that one consumes after they have lost a bet. Some sick shame shots include the hairy cocktail and the baby maker... Some shame foods include a Natasha Cake...
Rory: "Shit, she was a man"
Joe: "A deals a deal. Drink this shame shot."
Rory: "What's in it?"
Joe: "It's a Hairy Cocktail"
Rory: "Why is there hair in it?!?!"
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.