Pity for oneself; especially exaggerated or
self-indulgent pity where you believe that you are the
victim who has done no
wrong and is deserving of condolence from everyone.
"Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the
non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from
reality"
For a prime example of self-pity, see
Nice Guy.