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obsexing 

The act of having subconscious sex with someone you obsess over.
Dreams of a sexual nature concerning one you obsess over.
Katherina: "I was obsexing over Grayson Dolan last night."
Josey: "So weird, I was obsexing over Louis Tomlinson the other night."

Katherina: "We need to stop obsexing."
obsexing by Bandsrulemylife November 17, 2016

urban obsessing flame 

An annoying person who posts their boyfriend/girlfriend's name on urban dictionary and says how wonderful they are.
A wonderful, hot guy is not a definition for Ben you urban obsessing flame

obsecting 

i am not obsecting of you, bitch!!!!!!!!!!
obsecting by HELLS YA March 21, 2009

obstexting 

obsessive texting. (not to be confused with obsexting)
boy why are you obstexting me??
obstexting by acebzzzzz June 7, 2010
having an insatiable hunger for the ZEST
I've been obzesting over this shit for like 3 weeks now!
obzesting by Taycat December 31, 2008
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Slop Grenade

When someone uses AI to generate a large document, slide deck, or piece of code/software and tosses it over the fence for you to deal with.
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Brent: he just tossed me a slop grenade
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After we broke up, he was floxi to me.
floxi by Dr. Geek May 13, 2009
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
Word of the Day on September 25, 2026
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