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when you feel as if you're obligated to go out on a date with someone. I.E: a blind date, an old boy/girlfriend or just someone who has the funds to feed you for one night.
"Sorry Julie, I woud love to go out with you Friday night but the ex keeps calling and wanting to hang out with me, I have an oblidate."

"Josh isn't that cute or funny but I sure am hungry. I guess an oblidate is in order."
by Bianca October 18, 2006
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When you go feel like you have to ask someone out because you hooked up
I hooked up with Chris last weekend and now he's asked me out for coffee, but I can tell it's just an oblidate
by DylanB July 12, 2015
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