Phrase used after doing something sexual with a parent, sibling, child, grandchild, or any close relative to indicate that the act or comment was not incest.
This phrase is ussualy added onto a compliment you extend to your brother/sister/mom/dad, but don't want to make it sound... incesty and akward. Just like the phrase, "No homo". Then no one can accuse you of incest.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)