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not having it 

When someone is unwilling to accept the current or proposed state of affairs. Can also be used when someone doesn't believe you're telling them the truth.
Bush thought he'd slip Harriet Miers by on a nod and a wink, but the Busheviks weren't having it.

I told my mom I wasn't the one who put a dent in the car, but she was NOT having it and pressed me to give her the whole story.
not having it by The Grammar Nazi November 5, 2005

I'm not having it 

A term used by Brandon Rogers, when something is so annoying you are almost wanting to kill yourself, but don't want to take the risk.
Girl: OMG your girlfriend is cheating on you for that other guy over there!
Boy: I'm not having it
I'm not having it by andremieson October 3, 2016

Having it large with the lads 

A recreational activity at the weekend.
commonly related with pulling fit birds and drinking lots of lager.
and eating lots of pork scratchings and kebabs.
and shouting , 'you tosser!'. to coppers.
'alright my son! after i've finished shaggin this bird ill be having it large with the lads!!'
This phrase can mean a lot, perhaps to much. In some circumstances it can be the same as 'have it' but of course 'having it' is somewhat in the present tense.

So perhaps think of 'having it' as a outburst response to having extreme fun, mostly summoned for circumstances of a sexual, drug consuming, party time!
Fucking sweet to the eye balls buddy, I'm having a great time in fact you could say I'm fucking 'Having It' !

I guess I should get my ass in gear, strike up a fattyboombatty and start fucking 'having it'

Shitballs! I heard you had a proper session last night with the local hooksta!
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lol, yeah she was fucking having it.
having it by dat-ting July 9, 2007

Having it right off 

To have an extraordinarily good time, most commonly involving the consumption of alcohol (after you've had a pint)
- Hey Bobby how's it going? Having a good time?
- Fuck yeah, I'm having it right off mate!
- Slick
Having it right off by Massive Q August 25, 2006

Having it Large 

The phrase 'Having It Large' can refer to many things, the most common use is when referring to something enjoyable, for example: 'I'm having it large later!' - 'I'm gonna have a good time later!'

Although a new modern musical use for the word has also recently arisen where you 'Have it Large' on a variety of instruments by making as much noise as possible but in a melodic fashion, rather than just hitting whatever you can and thus creating what may be described as a 'Racket'...
One of the instruments most widely used for having it large is a Drum Kit, mainly due to its high volume levels and variety of sounds.
Another interpretation of the phrase is to play music as loud as possible.
Student 1: We've just had a Music lesson later, we were having it large!

Student 2: Awesome!

or...

DJ: Lets turn the speakers up tonight and have it large!
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Plate of Brown 

A plate of brown consists of foods that have little to no nutritional value, and are typically deep fried. A true plate of brown will also be accompanied by a dark soda.
Wanna go to meal hall & grab a plate of brown?
Plate of Brown by Cheddar Craigson September 18, 2020
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Larpenomics

When finance content creators rent out fancy cars and flex cash to seem richer than they really are in order to promote and sell their “get rich quick” courses.
Andrew Tate has mastered the field of larpenomics
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Palmela Handerson 

Your hand that you masturbate with.
Girlfriend: What are you going to do for the next week while I'm on holiday?

Boyfriend: Have a visit from Palmela Handerson of course!
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x:"Girl your fit chewed today!"
Chewed by iod1o March 30, 2022
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Blue Movie 

A pornographic film.

The use of the word "blue" to refer to sexually explicit content was first recorded in Scotland in 1824. "Blue" meant "lewd" because prostitutes dressed in blue gowns.
I found your stash of blue movies under your bed.
Blue Movie by Shayde79 January 20, 2011
Word of the Day on October 18, 2026

fache-couture 

French slang, which translated, means "bull's fashion" but basically equates to "hyper trendy" or overly trendy. Used when a person wishes to express distaste at the latest fashion trend/fad, because it seems that everyone has a certain item of clothing or is wearing it. This term is most frequently heard in Paris but is slowly spreading to other parts of France.
1. That Burberry scarf is so fache-couture.
2. That purple American Apparel hoodie is so fache-couture.
fache-couture by bkgmh46x0x March 18, 2008
Word of the Day on October 17, 2026
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