One who is a connoisseur of different types of homosexuals or homosexual events within a specific friend group.

Specifically, a man who has dated many different types of other men or someone who is knowladgeable regarding fashionable events within a city's gay community.

Etymology: comes from foodie
Javier is such a fruitee, he has dated jocks, bears, twinks and even a few hipster art-fags last summer.
by Vanderstasia Beverhausen June 23, 2009
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