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DOMINANT BOTTOM
A person who's dominant in a relationship & is the receiving partner. Those who identify as one are commonly engaged in BDSM relationships as d-types (i.g. master, owner, daddy) with submissive partner(s). Dominant bottoms are best paired with submissive tops & may tolerate switch tops. In a 24/7 power exchange, the submissive top is their ideal.
This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.
A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.
This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.
A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.
MARK: What am I exactly? I enjoy being his bottom & having him do things for me, yet I’m the dominant in our relationship.
JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.
MARK: What? I never thought of that.
JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.
JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.
MARK: What? I never thought of that.
JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.
DOMINANT BOTTOM by ITERNO_X January 27, 2022
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Financial Dominatrix
A Female who has a fetish for receiving money from submissives who shares the Financial Domination fetish.
Financial Dominatrix by MissTrissMatterMindTraing March 23, 2017
dominant yorkie
dominant yorkie by benth September 11, 2009
Dominator Culture
A model of culture and human relations based on hierarchy, ranking, power, and control. Masculinity is equated with control, conquest, and violence: men dominating women and children.
Opposite to Partnership Culture.
In a domination system...
Humans are flawed and dangerous.
Difference is equated with superiority or inferiority.
Power is used to control and destroy through hierarchies of domination.
Competition means "dog eat dog"; "every man for himself".
People cooperate to dominate others.
Huge gaps between haves and have-nots
Nature is a resource to be dominated, depleted and polluted.
Morality of insensitivity, control, and coercion.
(Based on the Center for Partnership Studies' summary of points from Riane Eisler's _The Power of Partnership_ and David Korten's _The Great Turning_)
Opposite to Partnership Culture.
In a domination system...
Humans are flawed and dangerous.
Difference is equated with superiority or inferiority.
Power is used to control and destroy through hierarchies of domination.
Competition means "dog eat dog"; "every man for himself".
People cooperate to dominate others.
Huge gaps between haves and have-nots
Nature is a resource to be dominated, depleted and polluted.
Morality of insensitivity, control, and coercion.
(Based on the Center for Partnership Studies' summary of points from Riane Eisler's _The Power of Partnership_ and David Korten's _The Great Turning_)
Dominator culture teaches all of us that the core of our identity is defined by the will to dominate and control others. We are taught that this will to dominate is more biologically hardwired in males than in females. In actuality, dominator culture teaches us that we are all natural-born killers but that males are more able to realize the predator role. In the dominator model the pursuit of external power, the ability to manipulate and control others, is what matters most. When culture is based on a dominator model, not only will it be violent but it will frame all relationships as power struggles.
(bell hooks)
(bell hooks)
Dominator Culture by Grinning Cat March 28, 2013
stream dominance
The act of making your piss stream more powerful and louder than the stream of the man in the urinal next to you to assert dominance
That dude just came up and took the urinal right next to mine, so I had to assert my stream dominance
stream dominance by Andrew the ogre October 25, 2017
seventeen world domination
this phrase is used to celebrate whenever seventeen breaks a record. it is also a fact that many kpop stans need to realize that seventeen world domination.
News source: SEVENTEEN has officially surpassed the 1 million sales mark on Hanteo charts with their new 7th mini album, Heng:garæ.
News source: SEVENTEEN's Heng:garæ will now be crowned as the 3rd KPOP album with the highest first week sales of all time in Hanteo charts, previously dominated with BTS albums only.
Carats: AND THAT'S ON SEVENTEEN WORLD DOMINATION
News source: SEVENTEEN's Heng:garæ will now be crowned as the 3rd KPOP album with the highest first week sales of all time in Hanteo charts, previously dominated with BTS albums only.
Carats: AND THAT'S ON SEVENTEEN WORLD DOMINATION
seventeen world domination by xu minghao fattest ass June 27, 2020
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Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.
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Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
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DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
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Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.
A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
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