created by Them Crooked Vultures in one of their songs; it implies a coitus closely realated to BDSM (it can be inferred from the lyrics of the song as well as from the roman emperor Caligula's tendency to sadistic orgies)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.