When someone comes back all of a sudden to
shower you with over the top displays of affection, flirtation, etc. They have been “hot and
cold” with you over and over— in your life one minute and then
ghosting you the next without warning.
This CAN BE a manipulative, narcissist tactic; used to see if they still have a “hold” on you. Makes you disposable to their discretion when they’re bored.
“Omg
Charles just texted me again! It’s been
two months! He’s asking me to go out to dinner with him and is being so cute, I’m so excited!”
“Girl, you know he’s just love
bombing you. He ghosted you a hundred times and is talking to like three other women on Instagram. He’s just thirsty and wants benefits from you.”