In layman'
s terms, self-actualization is when you have reaped the maximum potential out of your personal talents, abilities, creativities and ambitions. Self-actualization only happens when all your lower primal needs have been met (e.g. physiological needs, emotional needs).
While self-actualization initially paints a pretty picture inside your head, do not be fooled as the journey is actually quite excruciating. In order to become fully self-actualized you'd have to
push yourself to the limits. You'd have to devote yourself solely towards your ambitions and talents, no slacking or fun and games. The
world's biggest entrepreneurs such as Steve Jobs were 100% self-actualized, but
boy they were under a lot of
stress and often overworked to the core.
In summary, self-actualization is a very good
thing, but it's not for the
weak-minded.
Me in first year psych: *after learning about the concept*
Wow I want to achieve self-actualization!!!
Me in my fourth year: *suddenly realizes that self-actualization takes hard
work and pure dedication* Ehh I think I'll just live a
chill life