Tudelu comes from tüdelü. You say tüdelü instead of bye.
But Tudelu is different. A girl who called Tudelu is cute, friendly and responsibility. She loves all the people and the people love her. But some people are jealous and hate her but she doesn't care.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.