Relationship style that tolerates some nonmonogamy but does not aim for polyamory or multiple partners simultaneously
by HiKoality February 6, 2024
Get the tolyamory mug.Coined by Dan Savage. “Tolerating polyamory”. To be in a polyamorous relationship but only tolerating it. Not to be confused with “poly under duress” or PUD.
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A relationship style or mindset where a person is tolerant of polyamory but does not necessarily participate in it themselves. Someone who practices tolyamory may support or accept a partner having multiple romantic or intimate relationships while personally remaining monogamous or emotionally exclusive.
“I’m not poly, but I’m okay with my partner dating other people — I guess you could call that tolyamory.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
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by ObtuseGoose June 9, 2022
Get the Polyamory mug."Did you hear Jacob and Amy are into polyamory?"
"So they're cheating on each other."
"Not they're not! Unlike cheating, they are both aware of their partner's sexual activities. They also set up rules to avoid jealousy and heart break."
"That's just cheating with extra steps."
"So they're cheating on each other."
"Not they're not! Unlike cheating, they are both aware of their partner's sexual activities. They also set up rules to avoid jealousy and heart break."
"That's just cheating with extra steps."
by jellyjones January 23, 2020
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by PolyGirl12 April 6, 2017
Get the polyamory v mug.Kitchen table is a style of polyamory that places emphasis on family-style connections among the people involved in a network, whether they're romantically involved with each other or not. The name comes from the idea that everyone involved would be comfortable gathering around the kitchen table for a meal.
Friend: where's hubby tonight
Me: he is out at his gf's place
Friend: you're cool with his gf?
Me: yeah we practice kitchen table polyamory
Me: he is out at his gf's place
Friend: you're cool with his gf?
Me: yeah we practice kitchen table polyamory
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