tolyamory
Relationship style that tolerates some nonmonogamy but does not aim for polyamory or multiple partners simultaneously
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Tolyamory
A relationship style or mindset where a person is tolerant of polyamory but does not necessarily participate in it themselves. Someone who practices tolyamory may support or accept a partner having multiple romantic or intimate relationships while personally remaining monogamous or emotionally exclusive.
“I’m not poly, but I’m okay with my partner dating other people — I guess you could call that tolyamory.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
Tolyamory by Infinit3mber October 21, 2025
Polyamory
“I have duped my boyfriend into polyamory because I’m too afraid to break up with him but still want someone else’s dick”
Polyamory by ObtuseGoose June 9, 2022
Polyamory
"Did you hear Jacob and Amy are into polyamory?"
"So they're cheating on each other."
"Not they're not! Unlike cheating, they are both aware of their partner's sexual activities. They also set up rules to avoid jealousy and heart break."
"That's just cheating with extra steps."
"So they're cheating on each other."
"Not they're not! Unlike cheating, they are both aware of their partner's sexual activities. They also set up rules to avoid jealousy and heart break."
"That's just cheating with extra steps."
Polyamory by jellyjones January 23, 2020
polyamory v
A polyamory relationship in which two or more people are in a romantic relationship with the same person without being in a romantic relationship with each other
polyamory v by PolyGirl12 April 6, 2017
Kitchen table polyamory
Kitchen table is a style of polyamory that places emphasis on family-style connections among the people involved in a network, whether they're romantically involved with each other or not. The name comes from the idea that everyone involved would be comfortable gathering around the kitchen table for a meal.
Friend: where's hubby tonight
Me: he is out at his gf's place
Friend: you're cool with his gf?
Me: yeah we practice kitchen table polyamory
Me: he is out at his gf's place
Friend: you're cool with his gf?
Me: yeah we practice kitchen table polyamory
Kitchen table polyamory by Edgeofinsanity13 August 23, 2021
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The striver is an interesting phenomenon that is seen across college campuses. In essence, the striver is an over-achiever who comes from a working or middle class family. He may be an immigrant. He may have been a slacker in HS who was "born again" into an academic wunderkind. Or he may just be an over-achiever who is keeping at it.
The striver is willing to sacrifice his social life at the expense of Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. The striver is the guy who stays at the library long after you are gone. The striver is the guy who takes 30 credits/semester and considers anything below an A/4.0 failure. The striver doesn't work on campus, he is too busy finding ways to pad his resume instead of working retail or workstudy. The striver lets his grades pay his education by applying to ten scholarships a year.
The striver is a future Soros/Fullbright/Rhodes/Gates/Marshall/etc. fellow. The striver lives to study. For the striver, their fun comes from the rewards they expect to receive in return for their diligence. Be it Law School, B-School, academia, or politics. The striver seeks to find the American Dream through academic success.
The striver is willing to sacrifice his social life at the expense of Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. The striver is the guy who stays at the library long after you are gone. The striver is the guy who takes 30 credits/semester and considers anything below an A/4.0 failure. The striver doesn't work on campus, he is too busy finding ways to pad his resume instead of working retail or workstudy. The striver lets his grades pay his education by applying to ten scholarships a year.
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Anthony was a striver. He transfered from a TTT to an IVY and graduated in 2 years. He studied his ass off and went to Penn Law. He got a Biglaw offer. But lost it all because of an unmoderated mesasgeboard.
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- Barack Obama
- Harold Koh
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2. Select a player (real or fantasy) during a sport draft to put one or more of your opponents at a strategic disadvantage.
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2. Billy hate drafted Peyton Manning because he was the only good quarterback left and he knew Sam had been planning on drafting him.
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