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A relationship style or mindset where a person is tolerant of polyamory but does not necessarily participate in it themselves. Someone who practices tolyamory may support or accept a partner having multiple romantic or intimate relationships while personally remaining monogamous or emotionally exclusive.
“I’m not poly, but I’m okay with my partner dating other people — I guess you could call that tolyamory.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
by Infinit3mber October 21, 2025
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