Uncomplimentary term that is muttered by resentful residents/visitors of nursing
homes where they feel that the establishment’s “rules ‘n’ regulations” are so overzealously enforced/adhered to, unnecessarily dictatorial, etc., that it makes everyone feel as if they are actually being poisoned by the rules. The expression derives from the “top
nine” most notorious rules that --- due to the rules’ restricting/forbidding “totally harmless” actions that really would not bother
anything if all parties involved practice moderation and maintain appropriate/responsible behavior --- cause needless difficulties and stifled
feelings among the residents and their friends/family members who come to see them.
The “strict-9” at many of the snooty “
big-city” nursing
homes:
(1) No visitors before 9 A.M. or after 10 P.M.
(2) No visitor is permitted to stay overnight with a resident, even if said visitor is a quiet responsible
adult family member or trusted friend with a 100% clean criminal record.
(3) No visitors may use the facility’s parking lots to sleep in their cars overnight, even if it’s just for one
night, if said visitors are totally quiet and responsible, and if the parking lot is otherwise empty/unused all
night.
(4) No visitors are permitted to take showers, brush teeth, or otherwise make use of a resident’s washroom except to merely “answer a call of nature”, even if the resident does not mind, and if the visitor would be neat and expedient about using said washroom.
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5) No resident may leave the facility grounds unless accompanied by a staffperson, even if said resident is in the company of an immediate family member or trusted friend.
(6) No resident may be
left unattended
outside of the facility building, even if it’s just for a moment to allow a visitor to
go use the restroom or retrieve something from his
car.
(7) No resident is permitted pets of any kind, even “quiet” and “tidy” creatures such as tropical fish or
small birds.
(8) All residents must have their meals in the cafeteria; eating meals in rooms is forbidden.
(9) Sharing/exchanging food with your “cafeteria neighbors” is prohibited, even if said food would otherwise just be thrown away and wasted.